Couples Wedding Shower Games and Activities (2024)

Fun and easy activities and games for a couples wedding shower. Including, our very popular Tie-the-Knot Relay game. Such fun ideas for your own couples shower!

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I recently co-hosted a couples shower with my cousins and their spouses. They had the food covered but it was up to me to get creative and come up with the invites, decorations, games, and keepsakes.

I can’t believe how well it went, and everything came together relatively stress-free.

I happened to be looking through Pinterest right when my cousin called to discuss the couples wedding shower for our other cousin. When she mentioned they were thinking of doing BBQ, I couldn’t have been more excited.

There are some adorable I Do BBQ invites out there, and what an easy theme! There are also plenty of templates that make it so easy to make your own on PicMonkey and you could start the free trial and have them done for the shower in no time!

This was fun! After talking with the mothers of the bride and groom, I collected about 10 tidbits of information about each of them. Guests at the shower could take their best guess and we shared the answers just before the gift opening.

The display is also something the couple can keep and use for photos or holiday cards, and it was surprisingly easy to make. The full tutorial is here.

A great keepsake for the couple of the hour. With some popsicle sticks and a mason jar, shower guests can share their best date night ideas to help keep the couple inspired and spending quality time together.

This is so easy and something the couple can keep forever!

I got a dollar store plate, cleaned it with alcohol, and wrote the couple’s names and date of their upcoming wedding with a Sharpie. The guests then added their personal messages and I gave the bride instructions for baking the plate to preserve (hopefully, as long as the plate stayed pretty clean) all the messages.

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Baking:

Place in cold oven and set to 450 degrees. Once the oven gets up to temp, bake for 30 minutes and turn off. Leave the plate in the oven to cool overnight.

This is something we came up with on the spot while I was grabbing some last-minute supplies from Walmart.

While my cousin was talking about charades or a dance line, I kept thinking we had to come up with something that puts people a little less on the spot but still pretty simple.

I threw out the idea of doing a play on “tie-the-knot” and she came up with the idea of the activity being planting some flowers for the bride-and-groom-to-be. The great thing about this game is that the activities you could do are endless.

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We had four teams of six three couples – and each couple had a different task and a different rule to follow.

Leg one of the relay: Each couple was tied together by the ankle. They were responsible for going to collect the items needed to plant their flowers and bring them back. We placed plants, flowers, pots, shovels, and gloves about 10 feet from the table and they had to run down and back.

Leg two: Each couple was tied together at the waistback to back – and they needed to plant the flowers. We also told them they needed to each take turns with the planting, so they had to keep switching.

Leg three: Each couple was tied together at the wrist and and needed to decorate the pots. They could only use the hands tied together, and needed to tie a ribbon around the pot and write a tag for the happy couple.

Everyone had so much fun!

This was a blast! Following the relay, and before the gifts, we sat the couple back-to-back while I read a long list of questions and they answered whether they thought it best described the bride or the groom.

Very cute!

Hint: make sure the last question is, “who do you love most in the whole world?” And make sure they know it is the last question so they can answer correctly for that “Awww” moment – after all the silly ones, you want them to get this one right!

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The shower was a hit, everyone had so much fun.

The games were just enough fun without putting people on the spot, and the theme meant decor couple be inexpensive and adorable.

Check out my inspiration for these games and activities on my wedding Pinterest board… You’ll find the inspiration for the “Who is it?” game, links for Shoe Game ideas, and other I Do BBQ invitations you can order or print yourself.

Follow Exploring Domesticity – Kristin’s board Wedding ideas on Pinterest.

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FAQs

What to do for a couples wedding shower? ›

There are no strict rules on the type of couple's shower you host. You can do a boozy brunch, wine tasting, backyard barbecue or a formal seated dinner. We suggest asking the to-be-weds what kind of event they would like so you know you're going down the right path. You can also have a party theme.

Do you play games at a couples shower? ›

At a couple's shower, guests mingle and celebrate the happy couple. Gifts can be addressed to one or both of them, and they are typically opened at the shower. Of course, there is often a game or two played just like at a bridal shower.

What can I do at a bridal shower instead of games? ›

Here, we spoke with wedding planning experts on the latest-and-greatest bridal shower activities and fun bridal shower games:
  • Create a signature co*cktail during the bridal shower. ...
  • Create a sweet memory book for the bride-to-be. ...
  • Play wedding traditions trivia… ...
  • ...or couples trivia. ...
  • Collect date night ideas.
Jun 29, 2021

Who should throw a couples wedding shower? ›

The bridal shower is usually hosted by the bridesmaids, the bride or groom's mother, or other close female relatives. If family members aren't available to help plan, the bridesmaids should step in to help take care of some of the arrangements.

Who pays for a couples shower? ›

Those who are hosting the shower are responsible for paying for the shower costs. This might include venue costs, the hosts' gifts, decorations, food, beverages, and other event expenses.

What's the difference between a bridal shower and a couples shower? ›

A bridal shower honors the member of the couple who identifies as the bride; for a wedding with two brides, it can honor either (or both). A wedding shower honors a couple—and, like a bridal shower, is planned by friends or family members of either partner.

How long should a couples shower last? ›

Weichelt says bridal showers should ideally last between two and four hours. Anything shorter and guests will feel like they didn't have a chance to spend time with the bride; anything longer and they'll be itching to head home. Three hours might just be the sweet spot, then.

How do you make a bridal shower not boring? ›

Go Somewhere Unique. You're not obligated to sit on the back patio or stake out your parents' country club. Head to a pasta-making class, boozy art class, vineyard, brewery, salon, beach or gorgeous restaurant to spice things up and make your shower feel extra special (and worth the trip for any out-of-town friends).

How many games do you play at a wedding shower? ›

How many bridal shower games should be played? Depending on how long the bridal shower will last and the time duration of each game, you can plan for two to four of them—just be sure to leave guests plenty of time to eat, drink, and mingle, too.

How many games are enough for a bridal shower? ›

Conclusion. A bridal shower typically has three games going on at once, with an average battery life of three hours. Interactive and non-interactive, or multiplayer and single-player, are the two most common types of games played.

How do I make my bride feel special in the shower? ›

For example, you could serve up her favorite foods and signature drink, decorate in (or wear) her favorite color or reference a film or book she loves in the theme and décor. It's a fun way to make the bride feel extra special on her big day.

What is the apron game for bridal shower? ›

Bridal Shower game... put household items on an apron, have the bride-to-be show it off, while guests try to remember as many items as they can. the most remembered gets a prize and bride gets all the stuff!

What's in the sock bridal shower game? ›

Bridal Shower game: "What's in the sock?" place items that the bride might need on her honeymoon in long socks and number them. Guest can only touch socks with their feet to guess what's in the socks. Person with the most correct answers wins.

What is the difference between a bridal shower and a couples wedding shower? ›

A bridal shower honors the member of the couple who identifies as the bride; for a wedding with two brides, it can honor either (or both). A wedding shower honors a couple—and, like a bridal shower, is planned by friends or family members of either partner.

What food to serve at a couples wedding shower? ›

Refer to these easy bridal shower food ideas, including tried-and-true favorites like finger sandwiches and quiche.
  • Charcuterie Board Station. Photo: Natalie Probst Photography. ...
  • Pinwheel Sandwiches. ...
  • Bite-Sized Grilled Cheese. ...
  • Seasonal Skewers. ...
  • Flatbread Pizzas. ...
  • Miniature Quiches. ...
  • Salmon Bites. ...
  • Brunch Station.
May 29, 2023

Do you get a gift for couples shower? ›

Yes, if you are invited to a shower in addition to the wedding, you're expected to bring a gift to the shower as well as send a wedding gift.

How much do you give for a couples shower? ›

The Knot suggests an attendee should spend between 50 to 75 dollars on a shower gift. (However, if you also got the couple an engagement gift, the 20-20-60 rule can also apply—so your shower gift should cost 20 percent of your total budget.)

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